**Kitchen table **@polyamory is a style of @Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) in which all partners—including @Metamours (partners of partners)—engage in friendly, communal, or familial interactions. This approach emphasizes open communication, mutual respect, and a willingness to share social space among all relationship connections. The term contrasts with @Parallel Polyamory, where partners maintain separate relationships without direct social involvement. Kitchen table polyamory often involves group gatherings, shared activities, or collaborative decision-making, though the degree of interaction varies by individual comfort and consent. I have previously practiced kitchen table polyamory and found value in its emphasis on community and interconnectedness. However, over time, I recognized that my core relational orientation is @Relational Sovereignty—a dynamic that prioritizes autonomy, individualized boundaries, and self-defined relational structures. While kitchen table polyamory remains a secondary preference for me, offering warmth and social cohesion when it naturally aligns, my primary commitment is to maintaining sovereignty within relationships. This allows me to honor both connection and independence without defaulting to a single template of relating.
Contexts
- #consensual-non-monogamy (See: @Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM))
- #consensual-non-monogamy-lexicon (See: @Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) Glossary)
- #relational-framework
