A metamour is the partner of one’s partner in the context of polyamory, with whom one does not share a direct romantic or sexual relationship. The term reflects the relational structure common in consensual non-monogamy, where individuals may maintain multiple simultaneous romantic or sexual partnerships with the knowledge and consent of all involved. Metamours can vary widely in the level of connection they share, ranging from close friendships to minimal or no contact, depending on the preferences and boundaries of those involved. The role of metamours is frequently discussed in polyamorous literature and community dialogues, often highlighting themes of compersion, boundary-setting, and interpersonal communication.

Contexts

• #consensual-non-monogamy (See: @Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM))
• #consensual-non-monogamy-lexicon (See: @Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) Glossary)