Erotic Blueprint:

I think my Erotic Blueprint is a combination of Energetic and Kinky. As much as I love giving pleasure, I get a sense of power and security when I feel like I have permission to take it. I think it comes from the fact that my primary love language is Acts of Service and permission is very close to action.

• Energetic: I love the idea of tension, build-up, teasing, and play. I love it when I spend time with energy that is playful, witty, and coy. I enjoy the challenge of jockeying around for dominance to figure out who likes whom more.

• Kinky: I get excited about the idea of playing with the edges of someone's comfort zone. The idea that someone trusts me enough to give in to a request to take pleasure gives me a sense of power, safety, and security.

Desire: To articulate kinks without shame. To be aware of the energy, recognize its present state and shared the desired state if not currently in the right energy.

Zone of Play:

In my past romantic escapades, I believed that pleasure was only to be found in the intersection between the desires of both parties.

Now, I believe that there's actually a far larger zone of play between two people. All it requires is that both person A and Person B be capable of healthily articulating both their boundaries and desires.

Desire: To create or receive moments and opportunities for both parties to safely and honestly express selfish desires and boundaries without judgment.

Wheel of Consent:

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