Hierarchical polyamory is a form of @Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) in which individuals prioritize certain romantic or sexual relationships above others, often distinguishing between “primary,” “secondary,” and sometimes “tertiary” partners. These tiers typically reflect differences in emotional commitment, decision-making authority, cohabitation, or legal status. In contrast to egalitarian polyamory, where all relationships are considered equal in value and influence, hierarchical structures explicitly define levels of influence or access. This model can be structured through agreements or evolve organically, and is often used by those transitioning from monogamous frameworks. Critics argue it can unintentionally reinforce power imbalances, while advocates emphasize its capacity for clarity and boundary-setting within complex relationship networks.

Contexts

• #consensual-non-monogamy (See: @Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM))
• #consensual-non-monogamy-lexicon (See: @Consensual Non-Monogamy (CNM) Glossary)
• #relational-framework