Victim narrative is a primary psychological defense mechanism and manipulative strategy within @Cluster B personality pathologies like @Narcissistic Personality Disorder (NPD) and @Borderline Personality Disorder (BPD). To identify how this narrative is used to evade accountability, garner "supply" (sympathy/attention), and control the perception of external observers. To the individual, this narrative is often not perceived as a lie, but as an emotional reality—a shield against "toxic shame." For the observer, it creates a disorientation effect (@gaslighting), where the actual aggressor successfully frames themselves as the oppressed party. It feels like a weaponized helplessness that demands capitulation or rescue.
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- #cluster-b-lexicon (See: @Cluster B Glossary)
